I am Responsible for what i say. I am not responsible for what you understand.

Being able to communicate clearly and articulately is much more than an art, it's sometimes a way of Life for some. 

But between what one says & what one understands, is a chasm that needs to be crossed. 

You often hear people say, Are we ask on the same page!! That is know for sure that,  what one says & what the recipient understands are the same. 

Very often, the way things are said ruin relationships, can be the cause for a great deal of mental pain and agony. Always, Stop, Think and then Speak. The trouble with words is that once we say it, the damage is done, and then we try to take it back, apologise, but we have burned our bridge in the process. 

So always be sure that what you say, is what you mean, and what they understand. Countries have gone to war over words not clearly understood by each other. 

The words you utter are very precious pearls, give them away very carefully only to the people that really need it.  Be Responsible for the words, that you say, & say it responsibly w/o doubt.

Everyone has gone through something that has changed in a way that they could never go back to the person they once were.

We all have certain characteristics, that just one change in our Life, & Life is changed Forever. For me, it was probably the passing of my Father. That day, is engraved in my mind, the last smile of him while lying in that ICU bed. 

That day when I look back, took the wind out of my sails, & never to return again. Loosing a Father, a guiding light, a mentor, a figure like no other really brings your walls crumbling down for sure in everyway possible. But it was in our weakest and most fragile moments that you see the Hand of God working, touching and holding you through it all. 

It's His hand that never lets go, that is always there to comfort and strengthen you, despite the dark clouds of death and despair. 

But with God by your side, you come out stronger, more resilient, and with a better understanding of God's Love for you. All of us have had our own journeys, our own turning points, the point where you really understand Your very purpose, you look back at Life & truly understand it's very essence.

What needs to be done when making decision?

Life is filled with hard choices, we learn to cope with them everyday, gain experience but learn to take that tough call. Those decisions sometimes pin us to wall and make us make a clear call. 

Almost, like flipping a coin, often it is heads or tails, and we know that, but when that coin is in the air, we make our choice, and we hope like hell, it's what we want. 

We make those choices in the hope that they will be the right decision, and they will be good for us. We go with our gut feeling, our intuition, what we feel in the back of our mind. But knowing full well, that maybe our decision could go wrong and it will be something that we regret. But Life isn't about regrets, we have all made our fair share of bad decisions, but we move on from there, and hope that Life will give us a second chance further down the road. 

In between the  heads and tails, and that hard decision, we have made our choice in our mind. We say it's chance but actually, when push becomes shove, we have already taken sides, decided what we want, or taken a definite call. 

If what you are holding onto in your mind, is what you desire, Go with it. That's your intuition at work. So believe in yourself, and trust yourself. No one can ever take that hard decision, that you need to take. What you hope for is what you desire, so go with it.