Get Devine Wisdom: It will guide you to Everlasting life
What
does it really mean to be educated? Is college, in and of itself, university,
graduate school really what educates a person? What above all must you know?
What is most important to know? What is most needful?
And
I think you know the answer to that because the Bible very clearly says,
"In all of your learning, get...what?...wisdom...wisdom, spiritual
wisdom." I want you to open your Bible to the book of Proverbs and I want
to talk a little bit this morning about wisdom.
Some
years ago I had a very interesting discipleship group through the years I've
discipled men. I had a group that was a very mixed group. I had one guy who was
a world record holder in speed water skiing. I had another guy in my
discipleship group, same group, who was a movie producer and another one who
was a defenseman for the L.A. Kings, and a couple of other assorted common
folks like me.
We
were discussing what we were going to go through for a period of a year in
studying the Word of God and the consensus of all of these guys was we want to
learn the book of Proverbs because we want to learn wisdom. Wisdom applies to
everything in our lives. And that's exactly what we did and we had an
absolutely great year going through the book of Proverbs learning wisdom.
I
want you to look, first of all, at chapter 2 just to set a kind of a context
with regard to wisdom. Verse 1, "My son, if you will receive my sayings
and treasure my commandments within you, make your ear attentive to wisdom.
Incline your ear to understanding," a synonym for wisdom, "cry for
discernment, lift your voice for understanding. If you seek her as silver and
search for her as for hidden treasures, then you will discern the fear of the
Lord and discover the knowledge of God."
The
pursuit of wisdom. You have to search for it as for silver, as for hidden
treasures. If you compare that with the chapter in Job. Job has an interesting
chapter where he discusses mining. You might not think that in the patriarchal
period, the time of the Pentateuch, the first five books of the Bible when Job
would have lived and the book of Job been written, that they weren't in to
digging into the earth, but they were. They were in to dynamiting, they were in
to going down below the surface of the earth, Job says, where even the eagle's
eye has never gone, going way down into the belly of the earth, down deep below
the waters, down into the waters, the waters on the surface and the waters of
the earth to mine out diamonds and gold and silver.
And
in Job it says they do that to find earthly treasure but nobody can find
wisdom. And here it says, if you're going to find anything, find wisdom. Make
your ear attentive. If you want to listen to anything, listen for wisdom, turn
your heart toward wisdom, plead for discernment and lift your voice for understanding.
He
goes on all the way through the second chapter to extol the virtues of wisdom
and you can read it for yourself. But look at chapter 8 for a moment and you
have a similar chapter, in fact the whole eighth chapter really extols wisdom
again. It depicts wisdom almost as a person but again makes the very same
emphasis in chapter 8 as to the utter importance of wisdom. In fact, go down to
verse 11, we'll just sum it up there, "Wisdom is better than jewels and
all desirable things cannot compare with her." The most important thing
you will ever gain is wisdom.
That
leads us then immediately to ask the question, What is wisdom? In Greek, the
New Testament word for wisdom in the Greek language is sophia and sophia to a
Greek meant a concept. To be wise to a Greek meant to understand a concept, to
be able to comprehend something, to analyze something, to think about it, to
come to a comprehension with regard to it. That's not the word in Hebrew. The
word in Hebrew is chakam and what it means is skill in living. The Hebrews are
very concrete in terms of their language and how they think, the Greeks are
rather esoteric, mystical and somewhat transcendent in their thoughts, a little
bit spacey and so you get these conceptual terms in Greek but in Hebrew it has
a very concrete meaning, skilled in living, learn how to live skillfully, that
is the issue. You want to pursue something, pursue skillful living, pursue
wisdom in every aspect of life.
Now
that's really the clarion call of the book of Proverbs, and you can see it
repeated in a number of other places, I would just commend for your own reading
Proverbs chapter 2 and chapter 8. You can also read chapter 1 where it says,
"Wisdom cries in the street, and wisdom pleads and pleads and pleads and
you will not listen and you will not hear," and it says, "O you naive
ones, and O you fools, and O you people who lack discernment, why will you not
turn to wisdom?" If there's anything that should set apart a Christian
college, anything that should set apart those of us who are committed to Jesus
Christ, it should be that we are not only pursuing learning and understanding
of those matters which relate to our created universe, but we are pursuing
skill in all aspects of living and that skill comes from the Scripture, from
the Word of God. Wisdom personified is God incarnate in Christ and God
incarnate in Christ, of course, is revealed verbally through the pages of
Scripture. We come to Scripture, we learn wisdom.
Now
what I want to share with you are just a few of the lessons that wisdom wants
to teach you, okay? We'll take just a few minutes, see how much time we have, I
don't know how many I'll get through. Here are the most important factors of
wisdom. When you're getting wisdom, here's what you want to get...and there are
a lot of things, there are a lot of areas that could help us with the skill of
living, but let's take the most important.
First
of all, number one issue in gaining wisdom is to fear God...is to fear God. How
do you know that? Back in chapter 1 verse 7, we read this, "The fear of
the Lord is the beginning of knowledge. Fools despise wisdom and
instruction." The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge. Proverbs
9:10, "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom and the
knowledge of the holy one is true understanding."
The
beginning, that is to say the first, the most essential, the controlling
principle in wisdom is the knowledge of the holy one...the knowledge of the
holy one, knowing God, coming to know God, a relationship with God which, as we
have been singing, is offered to us through the Lord Jesus Christ. And then
having known God, we are to fear God. That means to have a reverence for God,
to hold Him in awe, to hold Him in respect, to do exactly what we were doing
this morning in our songs, and that is to worship God.
Those
of us who are spiritual fathers, who are responsible for the raising of a
generation of godly young people, whether we be parents or college professors,
or college leaders, or college presidents, or pastors, or teachers, or just
those who influence on a personal basis, we have the responsibility to teach
the next generation to live with respect for God...that's the issue. To live
with respect for God as holy, as sovereign, all those things that we sang are
part and parcel of understanding who God is. Obviously we live in a climate
where God is absolutely rejected. University campuses are populated by those
who are in to materialistic, naturalistic, evolutionary atheism. They want
nothing to do with God. They don't want God in the creation. They don't want
God in the morality. They don't want God anywhere in their world.
They
therefore do not fear Him. They have no awe for Him. They have no respect for
Him. Therefore they have no wisdom, therefore they catapult themselves and all
who follow them in their society into he abyss of confusion and tragedy and
judgment. We are to teach you to respect God, to fear God, to have an awe for
God, to worship God. That means to respect His Word in which He reveals
Himself. Psalm
138:2 says, "God has exalted His Word as high as His own name."
You can't respect God without respecting His Word, that means obeying His Word,
knowing it and loving it and following it.
To
respect His Law. To respect His power. To respect His authority. To respect His
displeasure about sin. To respect His right to chasten, His right to judge. To
respect His love and His mercy and His grace and his tenderness and His
kindness. That is to say, to respect everything that's true about
God...everything.
We
are to worship, says Jesus in John 4, in spirit, that means with emotion and
heart but also in truth. We are to worship God as God really is. Wherever God
is feared, I might add, sin is also feared. If you don't fear sin, it's because
you don't fear God. Show me a holy person, I'll show you a person who hates sin
and fears God. Show me a person who tolerates sin, I'll show you a person who
doesn't have respect for God. That's the controlling influence in your life.
How you view God is the most important thing in your mind. It is THE most
controlling reality in your mind, how you view God. If you have complete honor
and respect toward God, then you're not going to be so easily led into sin
because you know it dishonors Him and you respect Him too much to do that.
If
you believe in the sovereignty of God, that is that He rules everything in the
universe and brings to pass all His own purposes and is in control of
everything, you're not going to doubt and fear when your little world starts to
look like it's going bad. How you view God is the most controlling influence in
your entire existence.
Fearing
the Lord prolongs life, according to Proverbs
10:27. Fearing the Lord is more profitable than wealth, according to 15:16.
Fearing the Lord brings abundant life. Fearing the Lord keeps one from evil,
results in riches and honor, Proverbs 22 says. Fearing God produces humility
and He says that all through Proverbs.
Those
who fear God sleep satisfied and are untouched by evil, chapter 19 says. Those
who fear God have confidence. Those who fear God will be honored and praised.
And those who fear God will have their prayers answered. All of that is in the
book of Proverbs. This is the most crucial lesson, "Fear God." Come
to know Him and love Him and respect Him and honor Him, that's the beginning of
everything. That in itself will be an immense study.
But
let's go to a second one because we just want to introduce them and you can
study them for yourself in Proverbs. The second very essential component of
seeking wisdom is to guard your mind. The positive side of wisdom is to seek to
honor God. The negative side is to prevent other stuff from polluting your
thinking. This is also a very important theme in the book of Proverbs, chapter
3, for example.
He
says in verse 1, "My son, do not forget my teaching," and, of course,
he's teaching here the Word of God, the truth of God. "Let your heart keep
My commandments for length of days and years of life and peace they will add to
you. But do not let kindness and truth leave you."
Hold
on to the truth, young people, I can't emphasize anything more than that...hold
on to the truth. Don't let anything steal the truth. Don't let anyone pollute
your mind. Take the truth, bind it around your neck, write it on the tablet of
your heart. By the way, heart to the Hebrew means mind cause the Old Testament
says, "As a man thinks in his heart, so is he." We think in our mind,
not in our heart. Heart refers to the mind. Guard your mind. Inscribe on your
heart truth. Bind it around your neck, don't let it get away.
In
fact, look at chapter 4 and verse 23, where he says, "Watch over your
heart with all diligence. Literally again, your mind, with all diligence for
from it flow the springs of life. Now remember to the Hebrew heart had to do
with mind. When we talk about heart, we're talking about emotions. But in the
Bible, when they're talking about emotions, they don't usually refer to the
heart, strangely enough, they refer to the bowels. That's probably not a fair
translation. It's really kind of the stomach because when you feel something
very, very strongly, you feel it in the gut, you feel it, anxiety hits you
right there, fear hits you right there. And that's what they were expressing.
But the heart was synonymous with the mind where you think. So Proverbs
4:23 is saying, "Guard your mind for our of it comes your
conduct." Out of it are the issues of life. How you think determines how
you live. Be careful what you put in to your mind. Be careful what you see when
you to go a theater. Be careful what you read. Be careful what you expose your
mind to. Be careful of the ideologies and the false speculations that are the
fortresses of 2 Corinthians 10, that wicked men build up to capture a world
apart from God. Be careful of those damnable heresies, those lies, those
deceitful lies that come from hypocritical liars, Paul calls them, who are
infested with doctrines of demons. Be careful of all of that because your mind
is the controlling influence in how you act.
In
fact, in the book of Proverbs, the writer of Proverbs talks about simpletons.
And in the Hebrew language it says, "O you simple ones," in chapter
1, and it repeats that, "O you simple ones," the word
"simple" really is the Hebrew word for an open door. Again, I told
you the language is very concrete. And the word means an open door. And that's
a great way to look at somebody's mind. And that's how the Hebrews viewed the
mind. They said a naive person, a simpleton, a fool was a person who had the
door open to his mind all the time. Everything came in and everything went out.
It's the inability to discriminate. It was the inability to protect himself, to
keep some things out and hold some things in. It's like the person who says,
"I'm an agnostic," and they're sort of proud of it. "Well, I'm
an agnostic," and they don't understand the Latin equivalent is ignoramus.
I've never heard anybody say, "I'm an ignoramus and proud of it."
It's the same thing. What it means is I don't know...I don't know. You hear people
say, "I have an open mind," well the Hebrew would say, "Shut it.
You need to be discerning. You need to know what to let it and what to keep
out. Guard your mind.
That's
what you need to get. If you want to be an educated person, if you want to be
able to live life to the fullest, you need to fear God, that's the positive
side. You need to guard your mind, to protect it from evil influences.
Guardians of the mind. In a real sense, I look at myself as having that
responsibility. Fathers, in the book of Proverbs, are given that
responsibility. Not only physical fathers, but spiritual fathers. As I look at
you as a student body, as I look at a congregation of people in my church, as I
look at people who would read books that I write, or listen to me preach on the
radio or on tapes or whatever, I have in my mind all the time the
responsibility to help them discern truth from error, to help them to guard
their minds from the influence of things that effectively influence their
behavior away from God and away from blessing.
Thirdly,
in learning wisdom you not only need to fear God, guard your mind, but,
thirdly, select your companions...select your companions carefully. This too a
very practical aspect in life. In chapter 1 of Proverbs and verse 10, "My
son, if sinners entice you, don't consent." When sinners entice you to do
something you know is wrong, simply don't do it. You have the responsibility to
put yourself in relationships that lift you up, not relationships that pull you
down. And I tell you, it can be just that simple the distinction between
success and failure in your life. A student can come to this college in
whatever kind of spiritual condition, find himself in a group of godly young
people and have an immensely positive and transforming effect take place in his
life.
On
the other hand, a student can come here and she might wind up in a group of
people who pull her down. And before you know it, she's plunged into some kind
of sin that's destructive. Carefully select your friends.
Verse
11, "If they say, 'Come with us. Let's lie in wait for blood. Let's ambush
the innocent without cause. Let's swallow them alive like Sheol.'" They're
going to kill somebody. This is a pretty bad group, I don't think we have any
of those here. But you get the picture. Let's jump in the car and go do a
drive-by shooting and kill some little kid.
Verse
13, they say, "We'll find all kinds of precious wealth. Let's go steal,
let's go fill our houses with spoil. Throw in your lot with us. We'll all have
one purse. Hey, we'll split the deal."
"My
son, don't walk in the way with them. Keep your feet from their path for their
feet run to evil, they hasten to shed blood. Indeed it is useless to spread the
net in the eyes of any bird, but they lie in wait for their own blood. They
ambush their own lives. So are the ways of everyone who gains by violence. It
takes away the life of the possessor."
That's
just one illustration in Proverbs of how important it is to select carefully
your friends. You don't want to be the foolish one who's lured away by those
who say, 'Join us, join us.'" You remember what the Apostle Paul said?
"Bad company corrupts...what?...good morals. Bad company corrupts good
morals." The whole appeal here, you'll notice in Proverbs 1, the whole appeal
is on the attraction of excitement, of power and of being a part of the gang.
And he says run from it...run from it.
Don't
get seduced by those who want to do evil. Chapter 2, he warns them about
leaving the paths of uprightness and walking in the ways of darkness. He warns
about paths that are crooked and devious. He warns about getting delivered from
the strange woman, the adulteress who flatters with her words. You have to
carefully choose your companions. That's an absolutely essential thing.
In
Proverbs
18:24, just to call your attention to one verse. Proverbs
18:24, "A man of many friends comes to ruin, but there is a friend who
sticks closer than a brother." This is a great verse. A man of many
friends comes to ruin. By the way, if you don't know the Hebrew, you're going
to miss the whole point of this verse because it translates friends here twice,
but they're two different words. This is what the Hebrews says. "A man of
many reya comes to ruin, but there is an ahab who sticks closer than a
brother."
A
man of many reya, that means acquaintances, superficial relationships. But
there is an ahab, what is that? A loving, loyal, intimate friend. If all you
have, young people, in your life is a lot of superficial, trivial, surface kind
of relationships, you're on your way to ruin because you lack accountability.
You lack those kinds of people who will ask the hard questions, who will
confront the hard issues in your life. What you really need is an ahab, you
need a loving, intimate, close friend who is there and who asks those hard
questions and who expects accountability. A few superficial friends, a lot of
superficial friends make for a superficial life. And a superficial life makes
for a sad ending. A few close, loving friends, loyal, honest, uplifting are
much more valuable, they are priceless...they are priceless.
That's
part of our responsibility as leaders is to put you in an environment where you
are surrounded by godly friends, faculty, staff, administration, fellow
students, coaches, all of that.
When
you talk about getting wisdom, you're talking about learning to fear God, guard
your mind, select your companions.
Number
four, control your body. Pretty practical. Proverbs 5, "For the ways of a
man are before the eyes of the Lord." Verse 21, Proverbs 5, "And He
watches all His paths." First of all, realize this, God sees
everything...He sees absolutely everything. And it says in verse 22, "His
own iniquities will capture the wicked." In other words, people who sin
are going to get caught in their sin. He'll be held with the cords of his own
sin. When a person gets into sin and gets so habitually into sin that it ties
him up and he can't get out of it, verse 23, "He will die for lack...and
here's the Hebrew...of self control. He will die for lack of
self-control."
By
the way, starting back in chapter 2 verse 16, the book of Proverbs begins to
talk about an adulterous woman, talk about sexual sin, talks about how she
lures someone, how she draws him away into this illicit relationship. And that
becomes a theme that runs all the way through chapter 7. Proverbs wants us to
be very careful about self-control in the sexual area. Chapter 5 talks about
it. Chapter 6 talks about it. Chapter 7 talks about it. We don't have time to
go pursuing all of those but very, very important teaching.
The
sad demise of the person who engages in adultery, sad, sad thing. You can read
about the terrible end of those who follow t he sin of adultery. Chapter 7
closes with this word, "Her house is the way....this is the house of the
adulterous...her house is the way to Sheol, descending to the chambers of
death." Descending to the chambers of death.
Back
in chapter 6 verse 32, "He who commits adultery with a woman is lacking
sense. He who would destroy himself does it. Wounds and disgrace he will find
and his reproach will not be blotted out." That's a reproach that never
goes away.
I
had one of the saddest moments yesterday to call a friend who had been caught
in an illicit relationship and who realized at this very moment, only hours
after this whole thing had been exposed, that his entire life was destroyed in
that moment when he sought some pleasure.
Self-control,
I can't tell you, young people, how important that is. The lack of self-control
will destroy every good thing that's been built up in your life. Everything
your parents ever did, everything your pastors and youth pastors ever did,
everything your grandparents hoped for and prayed for in your life, everything
that Christian friends wanted for you, faculty, everything you came here and
heard and learned, all the songs you sung, all of that you just trash if you
enter into that kind of reproach which leaves you with a terrible disgrace.
It's
a tough world out there and there's a tremendous amount of solicitation toward
sexual sin. We must pray constantly, diligently, faithfully and seek
self-control. Proverbs 5:23, "He will die for lack of
self-control."
We
have responsibility to teach you self-control, to teach you self-discipline, to
teach you spiritual discipline, to teach you to bring your body into
subjection, as Paul says in 1 Corinthians 9, so that you are not a castaway.
In
fact, I was talking to my friend last night, he was weeping, his wife was
weeping. And he looked at me and he said, "Tell me you won't discard me.
Please don't discard me. I don't want to be a throwaway." In some sense, I
said, "I love you, I'm not going to throw you away, I'm not going to
discard you. But in terms of the ministry you wanted for your life, you're
discarded. And that is absolutely heart wrenching. I could hardly sleep all
night, looking at what has been lost.
Those
are the lessons of life. There are more. Let me give you another one. Fear your
God, guard your mind, select your companions, control your body, watch your
words...watch your words. In Proverbs chapter 4 and verse 24, and again, I'm
only giving you a sample, there are just all through the place. But Proverbs
4:24, "Put away from you a deceitful mouth." Tell the truth. When
you speak, let it be the truth. "Put devious lips far from you."
Chapter 5 verse 2, "Your lips may reserve knowledge, let them speak truth,
let them speak knowledge. Verse 12 of chapter 6, "A worthless person and a
wicked man is the one who walks with a false mouth."
Over
in chapter 10 of Proverbs, just a number of comments about the mouth. Verse 11
of chapter 10, "The mouth of the righteous is a fountain of life. But the
mouth of the wicked conceals violence."
I
remember reading years ago when I was a young Christian, a wonderful book and
in that book a man said the most life-changing decision he ever made in his
life was the day he determined this, wrote it down, made it a part of the
fabric of his life. He said this, "I want to covenant with my God that
every time I open my mouth, it will be to the praise of Jesus Christ."
That is a life-changing covenant, if kept.
Chapter
10 verse 13 talks about the lips of the discerning, on those lips wisdom is
found. The contrast in verse 14, "The mouth of the foolish just brings
ruin. It talks about lying lips in verse 18, the transgression that is
unavoidable with many words, verse 19, when there are many words, transgression
is unavoidable. Learn to restrain your lips and be wise. Keep your mouth shut,
don't talk too much.
Verse
20, "The tongue of the righteous is as choice silver." Guard your
words, watch your words. They can minister grace to the hearers. Verse 32,
"The lips of the righteous bring forth what is acceptable. The mouth of
the wicked, what is perverted."
Just
summing it up what it says in Proverbs about this. The lips of the righteous
speak wisely. They endure forever. They are a fountain of life, a tree of life.
They're like silver, they're satisfying, they feed others, they bring healing,
they bring deliverance. They are patient, kind, wise, truthful, honest, pure,
soft, gentle, slow to anger and are mouth pieces for the Lord Himself. Watch
your words.
On
the other hand, the words of fools are crooked, foolish, violent, hateful, full
of malice. Too many words bring strife, ruin, slander, belittlement, gossip,
disgrace. They're like a scorching fire producing mischief and perversity.
Let
me give you another principle of wisdom. Work hard...work hard. One of the
themes in Proverbs again, look at chapter 6 verse 6, "Go to the ant, O
sluggard." You know what a sluggard is? We call him a flake today, a
goof-off. Lazy person, "Go to the ant, O sluggard, observe her ways and be
wise." Then he uses a little analogy about ants. "They have no chief
officer or ruler, but they prepare...she prepares her food in the summer, the
feminine, gathers her provision in the harvest. How long will you lie down, O
sluggard? When will you arise from your sleep? A little sleep, a little
slumber, a little folding of the hands to rest and your poverty will come in
like a vagabond and your need like an armed man."
You
know how to be poor? People come to college and say, "I want to make it in
life, I want to have a career, I want to earn money." You will if you work
hard, it's just that way. If you don't, you won't. You just want to lie around
and loaf and float, your poverty will come in like a vagabond, just like a
stranger who wanders in will your poverty come and your need like an armed man,
just invade your life and take over.
The
sluggard or the lazy man, you know what that is? You know what a lazy man is?
It's a man with too many excuses...too many refusals, too many postponements.
Very important issue.
Chapter
10 verses 4 and 5, "Poor is he who works with a negligent hand." You
want to be poor? Don't work hard. "But the hand of the diligent makes
rich." I mean, there is a promise right out of the Word of God. Young
people, let me tell you. You're here in college, you're smart enough to be
successful. If you're getting through here, you're plenty smart enough. Most of
you are probably smart enough to be in charge of something, to have a lot of
people under you. You're learning the things you need to know to make a difference
in the world, how to think, how to speak, how to write, how to socialize, how
to lead, all of those kinds of things. You're getting a diversity of social
experiences, interpersonal relationships, the richness of life. You're learning
biblical wisdom. You have what it takes in terms of the input you've received
and when you graduate from this school to make a huge difference in the world
but it's going to come down to whether or not you are willing to pay the price
of effort.
There's
no magic. I know young people, I know what's on their minds. You know, they're
in business school hoping they'll get out and start their own business and
build it big. And those who work hard, generally do. Work hard. Don't be lazy.
I'll
tell you, hard work is the most rewarding thing in life in this world.
According to Proverbs, the lazy man will suffer hunger, poverty, failure,
because he's sleeping through harvest. He wants but won't work to fill is
wants. He loves sleep, he's glued to his bed. You know, the first principle of
success? Get up, that's it. Second? Get up early. Third? Get dressed. And
fourth? Get out of the house.
The
lazy man is glued to his bed, follows worthless pursuits. You know what I've
noticed about lazy people? They always have some get-rich-quick scheme waiting
around the corner that never shows up...never shows up. They're great at
scheming for the big wind fall. Never happens. The man who pursues his work,
Proverbs says, earns a good living, has plenty of food, is rewarded for his
effort, earns the right to have respect even before kings.
Let
me give you one more. Manage your money...manage your money. Back in chapter 3
of Proverbs, very practical stuff. Verse 9, "Honor the Lord from your
wealth and from the first of all your produce so your barns will be filled with
plenty and your vats will overflow with new wine."
Now
the first thing involved in managing your money is...what?...giving it to whom?
To the Lord, that's off the top, that's where you start. I can give you
testimony after testimony, after testimony of how God has responded to giving
in the lives of many believers, including my own life. Start there. Give to the
Lord. Even now, right now with whatever you have. It's not a question of what
you don't have, it's a question of what you do have. I'll be preaching on that
Sunday morning. It's not what you don't have, it's what you do have. All God
wants is what is reasonable from what you do have. He doesn't want you to give
what you don't have. But what you do have needs to start with Him.
Chapter
6, here's another very important principle. "If you have become surety for
your neighbor, have given a pledge for a stranger." What is he talking
about? Don't cosign for a debt for a stranger. That is to obligate your assets
for somebody else's indebtedness. Don't do it. If you have been snared with the
words of your mouth, have been caught with the words of your mouth. In other
words, you made a silly promise and now the guy comes back and says, "I
can't get this loan, I need this loan to get out of debt, or to buy this, or to
do this, and would you cosign for it because your credit will qualify me to get
it and qualify for you to get it, and then you just cosign and I'll be sure and
pay you back."
What
you have just done is you have yielded up your resources to his accountability.
And if he isn't faithful, it's going to cost you your own resources. Don't do
it. Don't put yourself into the hands of your neighbor. He also talks about not
being lazy there. Don't cosign. I'm not talking about a member of the family in
desperate need if you're inside the family. Obviously we meet each other's
needs. Don't get outside the family. And there are lots of other things,
chapter 13, chapter 22, just...there's a lot of stuff about managing money here
and a lot about giving money all through Proverbs.
I
just thought of one more I need to mention real quick. Love your neighbor.
Chapter 3, and just one illustration of it. Verse 27, "Do not withhold
good from those to whom it is due, when it is in your power to do it. Do not
say to your neighbor, 'Go and come back and tomorrow I will give it,' when you
have it with you."
In
other words, when your neighbor has a need, don't hold it back. If you have it,
give it. Show love. Build a friendship. Give to a neighbor. Be generous.
Summing
it up. The most important thing you could possibly learn is wisdom. Wisdom is
not some spacey kind of thing, out in the air somewhere, some conceptual thing.
Wisdom is skill in living and it starts with fearing God, moves to guarding
your mind, selecting your companions, controlling your body, watching your
words, pursuing your work, managing your money and loving your neighbor. Very
simple. But that's it. And when you've done that, you've learned wisdom.
It's
so important to be taught. I can say as a father, for example, if I fail to
teach my son to fear God, the devil will teach him to hate God. If I fail to
teach my son to guard his mind, the devil will teach him to have an open mind.
If I fail to teach my son to obey his parents, the devil will teach him to
rebel and break his parents' hearts. If I fail to teach my son to select his
companions carefully, the devil will choose them for him. If I fail to teach my
son to control his body, the devil will gladly teach him to give it completely
over to his lusts. If I fail to teach my children to enjoy speech that is
honorable to God, the devil will fill their mouths with filth. If I fail to
teach my children to pursue their work, the devil will make them lazy. If I
fail to teach them to manage their money, the devil will teach them to waste it
on riotous living. If I fail to teach them to love their neighbor, the devil
will gladly teach them to love only themselves. Learn wisdom.
Let's
pray.
Father,
we thank You this morning for this wonderful reminder that in getting
everything else we're getting, wisdom is most important. Teach us wisdom
through Your Word and Your Spirit for Your glory in Christ's name. Amen.
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